Shortly after, Melanie reached out again:
"Such great support, I can pour my heart out in writing. No accusations or anything negative in the response. And even now, I’ll say that the people you call friends and family are very lucky. I wish I had such an understanding friend by my side. It’s comforting that I can write to you from time to time. Yes, I’ve tried to talk to him, told him there are moments when I feel very sad, and I’m close to tears.
As a narcissist, he can’t help himself, rolls his eyes, and then tells me I should find something to distract myself so I wouldn’t think about it so much. I still have my friend, but I can’t burden her too much with this, because she went through the same thing three months ago. We talk and cry a lot together, but there are also moments when you’re alone with yourself and the situation. Today, I have my follow-up appointment with the doctor, and I hope nothing has been left behind. It was so terrible, and it makes me sad when I think back on it. I hung a little angel on my Christmas tree so this little being can always be present."
— Melanie*
*The name has been changed to protect the identity of the woman who was counseled.
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